OK, wtf fuck am I talking about? Its like this. If you try to become someone else, or lead your life according to someone else’s ideals the best you can hope for is adoption or influence, although its unlikely to fit well, and you’ll probably fall back into your old ways.

That person is the way they are, or thinks the way they do, because time and experience and natural thought processes have made them that way, or have led them that direction. So their personality or morals or beliefs is inherent to them – they can’t be anything else because that is them. Just like you.

Get it?